Five Things I Learned My Junior Year

Going into my junior year of college, I didn’t expect it to be as life changing as it was. This spring semester I learned a lot more than just what my professors were teaching me in class. During those months, I learned a lot about myself and the direction I want to go in life. Before I start, I want to thank the people I have met during college who have challenged me along the way and helped me develop into the person I am today.

1. It doesn’t matter how long you have been friends with someone to consider them your “best friend.”

You could know someone for 10 years, but when things get tough and you need a shoulder to cry on, they might not be there for you. It’s all about who’s there for you and who isn’t. The friendships you make in college might be some of the strongest friendships you have – I know mine are.

2. Don’t worry about what others think of your plans in life.

Recently a lot of people have been asking me about my plans for after graduation and if I have any interviews lined up. It can be stressful when people are constantly waiting for your next move in life. At the end of the day, do what you want to do because that is what will make you truly happy.

3. Don’t waste time on the things that don’t make you happy.

I can’t stress this enough. This applies to any situation in life. Life is short so we shouldn’t spend it doing something just because everyone else is doing it, or because you’re afraid of what others might think of you.

4. Working hard really does pay off.

One class I took this semester challenged me more than any class I have ever taken. I never missed, studied at least a week in advance and participated in any extra credit opportunities that were given. This was one of the only classes I’ve actually done all of the assigned reading for (sorry Mom). In the end, I managed to make the grade I needed on the final. I realized that all of my hard work throughout the semester really paid off.

5. Goodbyes aren’t forever.

I have had multiple close friends graduate, either this past December or this May. They are all going off into different directions in life. Some are getting full-time jobs, some are going to graduate school and others are becoming missionaries – which I think is awesome! Regardless of where they go in life, I know the “goodbyes” we shared won’t be forever.